Pollen sacs do not have stigma ‘hairs’. Female flowers do. That is a female.

I’ll tell you something my accountant told me once… ” I don’t know what you’re doing but just keep doing it ” Those plants look great.

🥳 congratulations It’s a Girl!

Usually safe to do some defol after she has 5 nodes. I’d remove damaged leaves and anything blocking lower growth that can’t just be tucked out of the way. Remember that just that something CAN be done doesn’t always mean you need to do it. Understand the why behind whatever you do and youll progress faster.